Dev non distributed optimizer js (#2234)

* op&kernel&actor

* job

* job_completer

* graph

* format

* fix pd

* fix

* ignore DelPlacementByOpName

* fix auto tick

* JobBuilder

* fix

* config util

* fix

* fix opgrade

* broadcast tick

* fix allreduce

* balance by model size

* GetSoleOutBlobSize

* async_actor_msg_deque

* group

* AddOrMutOpsOnlyOnce

* fix NcclTupleBroadcastGrad

* order

* set nccl order hint

* op_conf

* grad hint

* NcclTupleBroadcastReduceSequencePass

* add missed mutops

* order fix

* try kMdUpdtArea

* fix nccl_order_hint

* fix

* add ti

* tuple_identity_op

* remove useless

* group

* fix dead lock

* force ctrl in

* sc broadcast

* sort obn

* group nccl

* config group_size_mbyte

* non_distributed_optimizer_group_size_mbyte

* format

* stop check

* rm message sending optimization