[NET_SCHED]: Fix endless loops (part 2): "simple" qdiscs

Convert the "simple" qdiscs to use qdisc_tree_decrease_qlen() where
necessary:

- all graft operations
- destruction of old child qdiscs in prio, red and tbf change operation
- purging of queue in sfq change operation

Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>