dm raid: enhance reshape check and factor out reshape setup

Enhance rs_reshape_requested() check function to be more transparent and
fix its raid10 check.

Streamline the constructor by factoring out reshaping preparation into
fucntion rs_prepare_reshape().

Signed-off-by: Heinz Mauelshagen <heinzm@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@redhat.com>