md: factor out a mddev_find_locked helper from mddev_find

stable inclusion
from linux-4.19.191
commit 587241f748424a7532b1cd9536b2128a47ee54a1

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commit 8b57251f9a91f5e5a599de7549915d2d226cc3af upstream.

Factor out a self-contained helper to just lookup a mddev by the dev_t
"unit".

Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Reviewed-by: Heming Zhao <heming.zhao@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Yang Yingliang <yangyingliang@huawei.com>